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The DuPage Unitarian Universalist Church exists as a beacon of liberal religious thought and practice. Amid the challenges and changes of a chaotic world, we aspire to proclaim and embody the possibilities of meaning in human life, of freedom in human thought, and of peace and justice in human community.

Tuesday, March 24, 2015

Sunday Sermon: Some Thoughts and Feelings on Humanism, Sunday March 22nd, 2015

Some Thoughts and Feelings on Humanism
By Reverend Tom Capo
Preached on 3/22/2015

A member of this church and of our Humanist Group, Jack Seacrest, sent me an email of President Barak Obama’s speech on the 50th anniversary of ‘Bloody Sunday’, a day when thousands marched in Selma, Alabama, for civil rights with Martin Luther King, Jr.  Many were hurt and two were killed.  Here are some excerpts from Obama’s speech:  “What greater expression of faith in the American experiment [is there] than this … the belief that America is not yet finished, that we are strong enough to be self-critical, that each successive generation can look upon our imperfections and decide that it is in our power to remake this nation to more closely align with our highest ideals … ‘We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.’ …These are not just words. They are a living thing, a call to action … a roadmap for citizenship and an insistence on the capacity of free men and women to shape our own destiny … [We are] on a mission to change America … the idea of a just America, a fair America, an inclusive America, a generous America …Selma was part of a broader campaign that spanned generations …it is in our power to remake this nation to more closely align with our highest ideals … that all men are created equal … [This is] a roadmap for citizenship and an insistence on the capacity of free men and women to shape our own destiny … This is work for all Americans, and not just some.   All of us are called to possess their moral imagination …to feel, as they did, the fierce urgency of now… change depends on our actions, our attitudes, the things we teach our children.”
Jack felt that this speech spelled out a definition of religion. Religions around the world aspire to do many things.  Religions try to teach people to be of good character by affirming certain moral values and high ideals.  Religious people are encouraged to remake themselves and their world based on these values and ideals; they are told that these changes are urgently needed.  Religions also teach that it is important that these values and ideals are passed on to the next generation.  
For the next several minutes, let's agree that Obama's Selma speech does spell out a definition of religion.  If so, then there are some insights in this definition of religion that we, here at DuPage Unitarian Universalist Church, might reflect upon: What values and ideals do we affirm?   Do we urgently bring them into our lives and out into the world?  And what values and ideals are we passing on to our children?  You might say “I know the answer to the first question—our seven Principles—valuing each person, the democratic process, spiritual growth, the search for meaning and purpose, the interdependent web of all existence, and working for justice, peace, and equality.  How do we use our power to shape these values and ideals in the wider world?  Do we do so with "fierce urgency?" What are the ways we show our children the importance our Unitarian Universalist values and ideals?  

Wednesday, March 11, 2015

Sunday Service: The Cosmic Evolutionary Journey, March 8th, 2015

The Cosmic Evolutionary Journey
By Reverend Tom Capo
Preached on 3/8/2015


We have seen many images today-- the Big Bang, the evolution of our cosmos, and the evolution of life on this planet.  When I think about the universe and evolution, I am in awe of its ongoing process.  How could you not be?  It is amazing.  

The earliest humans climbed down from the trees to walk upright on the ground. Some theories about human’s ability to walk upright suggest that this change happened to free the hands for tool use and carrying, while others suggest that early humans walked upright to cope with changes in climate and habitat that favored a more elevated eye-position.  And some theories suggest that walking upright resulted in human developing a larger brain.  How many things had to align, had to work out, for us human’s to come into being, to have consciousness, and to be able to reflect on our own existence?    

When I attended General Assembly, maybe 10 years ago, I walked into a workshop sort of by accident.  I had planned to attend a workshop on preaching, but didn’t really engage with the speaker.  So I wandered out, and passed an open door of another workshop.  An image of stars and clouds in space was projected on the screen.  This piqued my curiosity.  So I went in.  The workshop was sponsored by the World Pantheism group.  Let me share with you some information from their website to give you a sense of the message that I heard as I walked in to this workshop:  “Many World Pantheist Movement members belong to Unitarian Universalist congregations and some are UU ministers … The essence of Pantheism is a profound reverence for Nature and the wider Universe and an awed recognition of their power, beauty and mystery.  We tend to believe that Nature and the wider Universe should be the focus of our deepest reverence ... From this feeling flows the desire to make the most of our present life in our bodies on this earth, to care for Nature, and to respect the rights of humans and animals in general.  We believe that everything that exists is a part of Nature … We believe that mind and body are an inseparable unity, and so we do not expect personal survival after death. Instead we look forward to a natural persistence of our time on earth, in the actions and creations we leave behind, memories people hold of us, and recycling of our elements in Nature.”

The presenters also said that this movement within Unitarian Universalism is not about a divine being or a god, though some Pantheists do use the word god to mean the ever-evolving universe, not a separate being.  The World Pantheists also said that they are skeptical of supernatural phenomena.  
I have to say that while I found the images of space profoundly moving and much of what they said compelling, I was not willing to let go of mystery and the possibility of some sort of divinity in all things.  This is a conundrum that I face—why does acceptance of science, evolution, the universe, even rational thought have to be disassociated from religion, spirituality, or impassioned thought?  Why can’t both exist within each of us, in some sort of harmony, or if not harmony, at least in good will?   I had hoped when I walked into the workshop that I had found a group of Unitarian Universalists who were embracing awe and wonder, emotional and spiritual experiences, in addition to rational explanations of our universe.  But they were insistent that any concept of supernaturalism or divinity was unacceptable to a true pantheist.  

Perhaps these Pantheist Unitarian Universalists were trying to bridge the assumed gap between rationalism and the emotional/spiritual.  Perhaps they felt that scientific explanations and theories might benefit from poetic imagery, from a lyricism of language.  And in this I agree with them.  I commend them for threading their philosophy with awe and wonder and mystery.  How could you not when you look up at night and see the stars and planets?  However their mystery is limited, controlled.  It seems to me that a mystery is not a true mystery unless it is limitless, open to any possibility.

In our story today, Anansi the spider is caught in her own conundrum.  Does she help the snake by removing the stone on his back and risk being bitten, or does she leave the snake, perhaps to die, under the stone?  Now I read this story a number of times and wondered what it meant.  Does it mean don’t risk helping someone who might hurt you?  Does it mean there is evil in the world that even a compassionate act can’t change?  Does it mean let evil or destructive people die?  Does it mean an animal, or person, is unlikely to act against its true nature?  Or perhaps be clever in how you deal with things that might hurt you?  In pondering the story, I wondered if there is another lesson that we might bring to bear.  Are we willing to risk reaching out to those who are different from us, even if we might get hurt, for a greater good?  Anansi helped the snake and got bitten.  What if the story focused on Anansi reaching across natural lines and her own fear?  What if the point of the story was that she had decided to do something beneficial even at the risk of being bitten?  That perhaps she had planted a seed in the snake that might sometime in the future lead to great spider-snake relations?  
This leads to another conundrum that I face, how can we write a compelling story of the ever-evolving universe for all people—people of all beliefs, all cultures?  How can we reach across what we assume to be naturally existing lines in the sand between certain Theists and certain secularists, when both sides have been hurt by the other and probably will be hurt again?  How can all humanity, all the spiders and snakes, embrace the great story of the cosmos; a story that is based on the scientific discoveries of the universe, while not discounting the possibility of mystery and include metaphor and belief?

Two people who are exploring this cosmic evolutionary story with mystery and metaphor, as well as scientific facts and theories, are Progressive Christian minister, Reverend Michael Dowd, and his wife, Unitarian Universalist, evolutionary humanist, and botanist, Connie Barlow.  Dowd and Barlow consider it their mission to travel around the world in their van, teaching and preaching evolution to Christians as well as anyone else who will listen, including Unitarian Universalists.  One of Dowd’s bestselling books is “Thank God for Evolution!”  In the first few pages, he quotes various scientists, such as Craig Mello, 2006 Nobel Prize winner in Physiology and Medicine and John Mather, a NASA chief scientist, and 2006 Nobel Prize winner in Physics, as well as Theologian Matthew Fox and Unitarian Universalist and senior minister of All Souls Unitarian Church Tulsa in Oklahoma (one of our largest congregations), Reverend Marlin Lavanhar.   All praise this book, which gives a clear scientific explanation of the universe and evolution, while also explaining how religion and spirituality need to embrace the cosmic evolutionary understanding of the universe.  Dowd also includes a letter from Richard Dawkins to his daughter Joliet about the difference between good reasons and bad reasons for believing in something.  Some of you may have read this letter.  Dowd wants us to engage in the difficult discussions of science and religion across assumed natural lines, risking getting hurt, to change the world.  He feels it is necessary to bring science and religion together for the future of our planet and our species.  He writes: [We are] a force that is polluting the planet and causing mass extinction, but at the same time [we are] a unique and precious expression of Earth. We are Earth’s meaning makers, painters, self-discoverers, storytellers, and bards. We are Earth’s deep memory. If we can embrace that as our unique ecological role, if we can learn and celebrate our Great Story [the story of the Big Bang and evolution], if we truly can see ourselves as actual cells of our larger body, Earth, then caring for the environment will feel as urgent and as natural as caring for ourselves.”

What draws you in, emotionally, to commit yourself to a cause?  How do people change their behavior, change their way of understanding the world?  From what I have seen, the answers to these two questions are: you either have a profound experience or you hear a story that is engaging, moving.  People are rarely changed or even motivated by facts alone; I know it is sad to say, but that is the truth.  A rational argument is generally accepted by someone who is already emotionally ready to receive it.   

Like Dowd and Barlow, I believe we need to tell the great story of our ever-evolving universe in a way that all people can hear it.  We need to find a way to tell it with passion and awe and mystery.  We can use old and new stories and metaphors to bring this story to life.   We need to be compelling storytellers without losing our facts, figures, and theories.  And no matter how compelling our story may be, if we tell our listener that they are wrong or stupid or irrational for having their creation stories, then we will enlighten no-one.  Each of the following three statements is like a facet of the same prism:
“In the Beginning was the Big Bang”
“In the Beginning was the Great Radiance.”
“In the Beginning God created the heavens and the earth.”

Wouldn’t it be great if someday, theists, deists, atheists, and agnostics could hear each of these phrases as essentially equal interpretations, only differing in the hue as the light travels through the prism?

Dowd writes: “So far as can be known, we are the only animals blessed and burdened with a mythopoetic drive.  We simply cannot not make events mean something.  [And we cannot not stop ourselves from telling stories that share this meaning].  For example, each of us tends to recall the events of our life in ways that render the whole into something meaningful, a coherent pattern that explains how we became who we are today and how we got to where we are…we yearn for a story that can make sense of our birth… the story of our parents, [and] the story of how everything came to be.”  Dowd goes on to say that stories are the vehicle of this mythopoetic, or religious, urge in each of us; the urge that calls from within to seek and find answers to the Big Questions of existence.  He suggests that we need the old stories to help interpret the present, to help us make meaning of the scientific discoveries and the ever evolving universe, and to help us secure a future for those who will come after us.

Could you imagine yourself telling this story:  
“In the beginning, all the universe was compacted into a very tiny space.  Was this the beginning of time or perhaps just a beginning?  We do not know for sure.  Then something caused an explosion—an explosion so big that all the pieces of the universe were sent speeding away from each other in all directions.  We call this explosion by many names: the Big Bang, the Great Radiance, the Hand of God.  From this explosion, light, energy, matter began to find shape, to exist in different ways—some formed stars, others, planets, others, remained as dust and clouds.  
In time, this star dust, either through nature, chance, divine assistance, or by properties that we don’t fully understand, became elements like gold, lead, oxygen; and later this star dust became oceans and land; and later this star dust became living things—animals and plants.  And even later, this star dust became us.  And now we study the star dust.”
How would a humanist hear this story?  How would a Christian or Hindu hear this story?  Could this kind of story create a bridge where we, people of all faiths, could stand together and engage in meaningful dialogue about our ever evolving universe and our connection to it?  
I invite you to listen with heart and mind to these words by Unitarian Universalist humanist, Reverend Robert T. Weston; notice how he weaves science and spirituality: 

“Out of the stars in their flight, out of the dust of eternity, here have we come, Stardust and sunlight, mingling through time and through space.  Out of the stars have we come, up from time; Out of the stars have we come. 
Time out of time before time in the vastness of space, earth spun to orbit the sun, 
Earth with the thunder of mountains newborn, the boiling of seas. Earth warmed by sun, lit by sunlight: This is our home; Out of the stars have we come.  Mystery hidden in mystery, back through all time; Mystery rising from rocks in the storm and the sea. Out of the stars, rising from rocks and the sea, kindled by sunlight on earth, arose life. 

Ponder this thing in your heart; ponder with awe: 
Out of the sea to the land, out of the shallows came ferns. Out of the sea to the land, up from darkness to light, Rising to walk and to fly, out of the sea trembled life. Ponder this thing in your heart, life up from sea: Eyes to behold, throats to sing, mates to love. Life from the sea, warmed by sun, washed by rain, life from within, giving birth, rose to love.  This is the wonder of time; this is the marvel of space; out of the stars swung the earth; life upon earth rose to love. This is the marvel of life, rising to see and to know; Out of your heart, cry wonder: sing that we live.” 



Perhaps in these words there is a beginning; a place where people of all beliefs can create a great story; a place where humanity can, out of their hearts, cry wonder about this universe we live in and sing together as we live.  

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Sunday Service: Christianity, A Different View - February 8, 2015

Christianity, A Different View
Reverend Tom Capo
Preached on 2/8/2015

Before the sermon, I offer this prayer or meditation.  It is selections from the The Thunder: Perfect Mind.  In December 1945, local farmers in Nag Hamadi, Egypt found a sealed earthenware jar containing thirteen leather-bound papyrus codices, together with pages torn from another book.  It is believed that the documents found at Nag Hamadi were texts used by various sects of early Christians, but the texts had been deemed heretical once the church began to formalize the books of the Christian New Testament.  The Thunder: Perfect Mind was contained in those thirteen leather-bound papyrus codices.

I invite you to open your mind, heart, and spirit to these words:

I was sent forth from the power,
and I have come to those who reflect upon me, 
and I have been found among those who seek after me. 
Look upon me, you who reflect upon me,
and you hearers, hear me. 
You who are waiting for me, take me to yourselves. 
And do not banish me from your sight.
And do not make your voice hate me, nor your hearing…
For I am the first and the last.
I am the honored one and the scorned one.
I am the whore and the holy one.
I am the wife and the virgin.
I am <the mother> and the daughter.
I am the members of my mother.
I am the barren one
and many are her sons. 
I am she whose wedding is great,
and I have not taken a husband. 
I am the midwife and she who does not bear.
I am the solace of my labor pains.
I am the bride and the bridegroom,
and it is my husband who begot me. 
I am the mother of my father
and the sister of my husband 
and he is my offspring… 
I am the silence that is incomprehensible
and the idea whose remembrance is frequent. 
I am the voice whose sound is manifold
and the word whose appearance is multiple. 
I am the utterance of my name…
For I am knowledge and ignorance.
I am shame and boldness.
I am shameless; I am ashamed.
I am strength and I am fear.
I am war and peace.
Give heed to me…
Hear me, you hearers
and learn of my words, you who know me. 
I am the hearing that is attainable to everything;
I am the speech that cannot be grasped. 
I am the name of the sound
and the sound of the name. 
I am the sign of the letter
and the designation of the division.

Blessed Be…Amen


Sermon
One of the symbols of early Christianity was not a cross; it was an ankor.  This symbol was used to encourage hope in a time of persecution, and held its meaning from the Hebrew scripture: “We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.” 
As we begin our journey I thought I would start with this from the Gospel of Thomas, an early Christian text, “Jesus said: “Let the one who seeks continue seeking until he finds.  And when that one finds he will be disturbed, and once that one is disturbed he will become awed, and will rule as a king over the all.”  
We are all seekers here; that it the very essence of our faith, to seek truth and meaning individually and collectively, to share with one another and be enriched and disturbed by one another.  To look more closely at ourselves, each other, and the universe around us, and be awed by what we see.  We will find that life is not static, belief is not static, the universe is not static. If we believe in the divine, perhaps we will find even the divine is not static.  We are all co-creators, integral parts of the beauty and wonder that surrounds us.  

Thursday, January 29, 2015

Sunday Service: Native American Spirituality - January 25, 2015

Native American Spirituality
Reverend Tom Capo
Preached on January 25, 2015

Evan T. Prichard, a descendant of the Algonquin people, founder of The Center for Algonquin Culture, and currently Professor of Native American history at Marist College, wrote in the introduction to his book, Native American Stories of the Sacred:  “A religion—whatever its origin—is more than a spiritual path; it also invariably contains philosophy, numerous folk customs, and a wealth of stories or teaching tales.  The spirituality of a given religion, including meditation practices and revealed teachings, arises out of the depths of the illuminated soul; the philosophy behind the spiritual message arises from the clarity of mind that a true religious experience produces; the traditions, folk customs, health practices, and artifacts that affect the physical body arise from the religious culture; and the wealth of stories, teaching tales, myths, and legends, not to mention the poetry and songs that each religion preserves come from the heart of the faithful.  Each Native American subculture has all of these, so Native American spirituality in each of its forms could be compared with every world religion point for point.”
I found myself having some difficulty with this sermon.  My great grandmother was full blood Cherokee; my grandfather never told us of his Native American roots because he feared persecution.  And some of my ancestors were immigrants to the United States took advantage of and abused the Native American population.  Non-natives moved Native Americans off their land; they killed them when they resisted; and they took their sacred objects.  Immigrants educated Native American children in their ways, indoctrinating them into the Christian religion.  Many Native American traditions and rituals, artifacts and stories were lost.  What I wish to share with you is some of what has survived.  The rituals and traditions and stories that have survived are being used within different Native American communities.  

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Sunday Service: The Path of Buddhism - January 11th, 2015

Editor's Note:  Along with a congregational service on Buddhism, our Religious Education programming is devoting time to learning more about this major world religion.  Youth in their Sunday classes will spend time this year on the religion, its tenets and practices - and adults are welcome to attend the five-week course led by Rev. Tom starting January 18th.  Details available HERE

The Path of Buddhism
By Reverend Tom Capo
Preached on 1/11/2015

How many of you know the story of Siddhartha Gautama or as he came to be known, the Buddha?  Well, just so we start in the same place, let me tell you the Cliff Notes version of his life.  His father was a king, who believed that Siddhartha would either become a great king or a great religious leader, and since he wanted his son to become a great king, he kept his son secluded on their castle grounds.  One day Siddhartha went outside the grounds, and saw old people, sad people, and sick people.  He was greatly moved by this exposure.  So he left the castle and started studying with great spiritual teachers and tried many spiritual practices to find how one might cope with the problems of this life.  Eventually, he found himself sitting under a Bodhi tree meditating, and he realized, that is, he became enlightened, that there was a path to deal with suffering in the world.  He realized that there will always be suffering; our lives have ups and downs—that is the way life is.  And suffering is not intended to convey a negative view of the world or of life.   Tibetan Buddhist monk, Pema Chodron (choe drun), wrote: “When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into its dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment, or awakening to our true nature, to our fundamental goodness.”  In order to deal with suffering, one needs to have a down-to-earth, reasonable understanding of suffering, and see the world as it is—not as we want it to be.  In other words one day or another there will be suffering in your life—so it is best to learn to cope with suffering without letting it control you.

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Sunday Service: The Complexity & Simplicity of Hinduism - Sunday January 4, 2015

The Complexity and Simplicity of Hinduism
Preached on 1/04/2015
By Reverend Tom Capo

First let me share a few interesting facts about Hinduism. (Hindu.BZ.com and hindu facebook)
1. More than 10,000 years ago the institution of marriage was founded and put forth in practice by Hindus.
2. The Rigveda, one of Hindu's holy scriptures, is the oldest literature known to humanity.
3. According to the Vedas, lending money on interest is a bad Karma.  We will talk about Karma later. 
4. According to the Vedas, Om, Hinduism's most sacred sound, is the sound which was present at the time of creation of universe.
5. Parents, teachers, and food are considered next to God.  That makes sense to me somehow.
6. Because of the usefulness of rivers, they are highly revered in Hinduism. People call them mother. 
7. Hindus believe that we get the human body when our soul passes through 8,400,000 species of plants and animals.

I could go on with interesting facts or tell you about the gods and goddesses of Hinduism, or the social caste system--the societal level that each person is assigned based on their birth; or I could talk about the various ways that people practice their faith, or all the religious texts and their meaning to various sects of Hinduism; or I could talk about the various rituals, holidays, and pilgrimages.  If I chose to talk about even one of these in detail, we would be here for a very very long time.  You see Hinduism is a collective term applied to the many philosophical and religious traditions native to India.  In a strict sense there was no 'Hinduism' before modern times, although the sources of Hindu traditions are very ancient.  And Hinduism has no definite starting point that anyone has been able to discover. The traditions which flow into Hinduism may go back several thousand years and some practitioners claim that revelation in Hinduism is eternal; sound familiar?

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Sunday Service: Irrational Hope - Sunday December 7th, 2014


Irrational Hope
Reverend Tom Capo
Preached Sunday December 7th, 2014

I offer this poem by Vineet Bansal for your reflection:
What hope means
Hope is bright shining light which keeps darkness at bay
Hope is gentle cold breeze on a hot summer day
Hope is to remain positive when going gets tough
Hope is seeking more when others think you had enough
What hope means
Hope is dreaming of tomorrow
Hope is simmering under sorrow
Hope is sparkles when tears are in our eyes
Hope is a beautiful thing & beautiful things never die
What hope means
Hope is as light as a feather
Hope keeps all of us together
Hope is ubiquitous and free of cost
Hope is the last thing ever lost..... 


David McRaney in his book You are not so smart wrote:
    “The misconception: If you are in a bad situation, you will do whatever you can to escape it.  The truth: If you feel like you aren’t in control of your destiny, you will give up and accept whatever situation you are in.
    In 1965, a psychologist named Martin Seligman started shocking dogs.  He was trying to expand on the research of Pavlov—the guy who could make dogs salivate when they heard a bell ring.  Seligman wanted to head in the other direction, and when he rang his bell, instead of providing food, he zapped the dogs with electricity.  To keep them still, he restrained them in a harness during the experiment.  After they were conditioned, he put these dogs in a big box with a little fence dividing it into two halves.  He figured if [he] rang the bell, [the dog] would hop over the fence to escape, but it didn’t.  It just sat there and braced itself.  They decided to try shocking the dog after the bell.  The dog still sat there and took it.  When they put a dog in the box that had never been shocked before, or had previously been allowed to escape, and tried to zap it—it jumped the fence.  [McRaney asserts:]      You are just like these dogs…The leading theory as to how such a strange behavior would evolve is that it often springs from all organisms’ desire to conserve resources.  If you can’t escape a source of stress, it leads to more stress, and this positive feedback loop eventually triggers an autonomic shutdown.  At its most extreme, you think if you keep struggling you might die.  If you stop [struggling], there is a chance the bad thing will go away.”